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What are Social awareness and communicative difficulties?
How will this affect my child?
How can I help?
Where can I find out more?

School support:

What are social awareness and communicative difficulties?

This combination of difficulties centres on a lack of social, interpersonal and emotional awareness, sometimes combined with obsessive and inappropriate behaviours. It may be associated with difficulties of imaginative thought, and can be characteristic of some autistic spectrum disorders, or Asperger's Syndrome.

Advice for the classroom:

  • Environment:
    Create a calm, predictable and consistent working environment – change, especially unexpected change, can be very hard for him/her.
    Keep the pupil’s arousal level low, and minimise sensory distractions.

  • Classroom Management:
    Recognise that unstructured ‘fun-time’ can be hard for him/her.
    When necessary, intervene calmly – and always non-confrontationally.
    Emphasise structure and predictability.
    Modify tasks to build on the pupil’s strengths.

  • Interaction/Developing Understanding:
    Be very careful to ensure the pupil understands what is expected of him/her.
    Use simple language, and keep all communication as simple as possible.
    Address the pupil directly by name – he/she won’t necessarily realise that instructions for the whole class are meant for him/her too.
    Recognise and take account of his/her limited ability to interpret social cues or subtleties of speech and language.

  • Do not pressure the pupil into social situations. Help him/her to interpret situations – and don’t be surprised when he/she gets it wrong.
    Expect him/her to be very literal in how he understands things.
    Accept that the pupil may show some quite rigid and obsessional behaviours – try to limit rather than stop them.

Use pictorial and visual cues whenever possible to explain tasks.
Allow for solitariness – the pupil may feel very threatened by others.
Encourage independence, decision making and change – but do so very carefully, and step by step.
Encourage the pupil to think about and understand him/herself.
Accept him/her for what and who he/she is, and don’t expect change – a quote from an autistic child: ‘I need help to grow into this, not out of it.’

  • Motivation and Self-esteem:
    Let the pupil know you are aware of his/her difficulty, and that you are sympathetic – but that you have high expectations.
    Be specially generous with praise and cautious with criticism. Praise can be a natural motivator as long as the child feels the praise is genuine and deserved. It is important to let the pupil know why he/she is being praised rather than just to provide praise. In a behavioural reward system with extrinsic rewards such as stickers or points, the child can easily see why he/she is being praised. This can be an effective motivator, as long as the rewards are meaningful and appropriate.

School issues:

Ensure that all the pupil's teachers know about the difficulty and understand its implications. Good communication between home and school is important to ensure consistency.

Books & articles:

Arrons, M. and Gittens, T. (1999) The Handbook of Autism – A Guide for Parents and Professionals (Routledge) – contains chapters on history of autism, causes and difficulties relating to diagnosis as well as practical considerations and alternative treatments.

Attwood, T. (1998) Asperger’s Syndrome – a guide for parents and professionals (Kingsley).

Cumine, V., Leach, J. and Stevenson, G. (1998) Asperger’s Syndrome – a practical guide for teachers (David Fulton).

Frith, U. (1991) Autism and Asperger Syndrome (Cambridge University Press).

Hawley, G. (2002) SpLD Resources: a guide to the help available to parents of children with special needs – a useful 80-page compendium of information covering difficulties with reading and writing (dyslexia), numeracy (dyscalculia), handwriting (dyslexia), developmental coordination (dyspraxia), language impairment, autism and ‘attention deficit disorder’. Contains details of the national organisations that address it, together with a list of books, pamphlets and websites. The guide costs £4.50, including p & p, from Gillian Hawley (cheques to Gillian Hawley SpLD account), The Old Bakery, Radwinter Road, Ashton, Essex CB10 2ET (01799 584424). Readers in East Anglia, Rutland, Bedfordshire and Hertfordshire receive a free 30-page supplement listing more than 150 special needs teachers in the district.

Hesmondhalgh, M. and Breakey, C. (2001) Access and Inclusion for children with Autistic Spectrum Disorders – ‘let me in’ (Kingsley).

Jackson, L. (2002) Freaks, Geeks and Asperger Syndrome (Jessica Kingsley).

Jordan, R. and Jones, G. (1997) Educational Provision for Children with Autism in Scotland (Scottish Office – Interchange No. 46).

Jordan, R. and Powell, S. (1995) Understanding and Teaching Children with Autism (Wiley).

Kadesjo, B. (2000) Neuropsychiatric and neurodevelopmental disorders in a young school-age population (University of Goteborg).

Kaufman, B. N. (1975) Son Rise (Warner). See also the website: www.son-rise.org

Mont, D. (2001) A different kind of boy – a father’s memoir about raising a gifted child with autism (Kingsley).

Shore, S. (2001) Beyond the Wall – personal experiences with autism and Asperger’s Syndrome (Kingsley).

Tanguay, P. (2002) Nonverbal Learning Disabilities at School (Kingsley).

Trevarthen, C., Aitken, K., Papoudi, D. and Robarts, J. (1998) Children with Autism: diagnosis and interventions to meet their needs (Kingsley, 2nd edition).

Vermeulen, P. (2000) I am Special – introducing children and young people to their Autistic Spectrum Disorder (Kinsley).

Williams, D. (1994) Somebody Somewhere (Doubleday).

Williams, D. (1996) Autism: an inside-out approach (Kingsley).

Wing, L. (1996) The Autistic Spectrum: A guide for parents and professionals (Kingsley).

Useful addresses & websites:

Allergy Induced Autism (AiA) (11 Larklands, Longthorpe, Peterborough PE3 6LL; tel: 0845 130 0004;
email: aia@autismmedical.com; website: www.autismmedical.com) – a biomedical autism charity.

ASD Training and Asperger Advice Service – email: mail@asperger-advice.co.uk;
website: www.asperger-advice.co.uk

Autism Independent UK (email: autism@rmplc.co.uk; website: www.autismuk.com) – a resource centre with reference library, factfiles and training courses.

Autism Research Unit – School of Sciences, University of Sunderland, Sunderland, SR9 7EE; tel: 0191 510 8922; email: aru@sunderland.ac.uk; website: http//osiris.sunderland.ac.uk/autism

Dyscovery Centre, 4a Church Road, Whitchurch, Cardiff CF14 2DZ; tel: +44 (0) 29 2062 8222; fax: +44 (0) 29 2062 8333 website: www.dyscovery.co.uk – a multidisciplinary assessment centre for dyslexia, dyspraxia, attention deficit disorder and autistic spectrum disorders.

Fledglings, 6 Southfield, Ickleton, Saffron Waldon, CB10 1BE; tel: 0845 458 1124;
e-mail: enquiries@fledglings.org.uk; website: www.fledglings.org.uk – a free product and service search for families of children with special needs, for educational items and developmental toys.

Jessica Kingsley Publishers have an extensive catalogue of relevant books – website: www.jkp.com

National Association of Special Educational Needs (NASEN), Nasen House, 4-5 Amber Business Village, Amber Close, Amington, Tamworth B77 4RP; tel: 01827 311500; fax: 01827 313005; email: welcome@nasen.org.uk ; website: www.nasen.org.uk

National Autistic Society (NAS), 393 City Road, London EC 1V 1NE; tel: 0171 833 2299; fax: 0171 833 9666; email: nas@clusl.ulcc.ac.uk; website: www.nas.org.uk – provides information, publications and general advice on children and adults with autism, e.g. Autism – How to help your young child (1998).

Office for Advice, Assistance, Support and Information on Special Needs (OAASIS), Brock House, Grigg Lane, Brockenhurst, Hants SO42 7RE; helpline tel: 09068 633201; website: www.oaasis.co.uk – an advice, training and resource centre for parents and professionals.

Professional Association of Teachers of Students with Specific Learning Difficulties (Patoss), website: www.patoss-dyslexia.org

Scottish Society for Autism, Hilton House, Alloa Business Park, Whins Road, Alloa, FK10 3SA; tel: 01259 720044; fax: 01259 720051; email: autism@austin-in-scotland.org.uk; website: www.autism-in-scotland.org.uk – provides advice on all aspects of autism and also incorporates CETA (the Centre for Education and Training in Autism) – email: ceta@autism-in-scotland.org.uk

www.autismresearchcentre.com – the website of the Autism Research Centre at Cambridge University.

www.futurehorizons-autism.com – an American site listing publications and information.

www.autismconnect.org – a comprehensive site covering a large range of topics.

www.strath.ac.uk/autism-ncas – The National Centre for Autism Studies.

www.speechteach.co.uk – a range of downloadable clipart that can be used for visual aids.

www.teacch.com – lots of ideas about environmental structure and supporting communication.

Home support:

What are social awareness and communicative difficulties?

This combination of difficulties centres on a lack of social, interpersonal and emotional awareness, sometimes combined with obsessive and inappropriate behaviours. It may be associated with difficulties of imaginative thought, and can be characteristic of some autistic spectrum disorders, or Asperger's Syndrome.

How will this affect my child?

Your child may find it hard to make friends, and to understand how other people are thinking.
He/she may find it hard to know how he/she is expected to behave in different circumstances.
His/her speech may be a little unusual.
Your child might be very dependent on certain routines, and find any kind of change distressing.
He/she may tend to take things very literally, and sometimes seem tactless.
He/she may have some special interests that are almost obsessive.

How can I help?

  • Environment:
    Try to create a calm, predictable and consistent home environment – change, especially unexpected change, can be very hard for your child.
    While it is important to encourage your child to socialise, it is also important to provide space. This will enable him/her to reflect and relax. It may be necessary for this to take place in his/her own personal space.

  • Expectations:
    Try to have realistic expectations. This can come about by knowing the person, and his/her likes and dislikes, and taking these into account.
    You need to appreciate that your child may wish to avoid social situations. Although some effort should be made to introduce gradual acceptance of social situations, any avoidance needs to be understood and accepted. Do not pressure him/her into social situations.
    Accept that your child may show some quite rigid and obsessional behaviours – try to limit rather than stop them.
    Allow for solitariness – your child may feel very threatened by others.
    Encourage independence, decision making and change – but do so very carefully, and step by step.
    Encourage your child to think about and understand him/herself – this can be done through discussion rather than through direct questioning: it is important not to rebuke the person because of his/her views.

  • Motivation:
    Let your child know you are aware of his/her difficulty, and that you are sympathetic – but have realistic expectations.
    Try to keep school pressures in perspective – at times your child may feel overwhelmed by this pressure. Talk through this with him/her and then it may not seem as insurmountable as at first sight.
    Look for opportunities to boost your child’s self-esteem – boosting self-esteem can help considerably in facing social situations.

    Support Groups:
    These can be very beneficial for parents, as often the isolation desired by the child can influence the social behaviour of the family. Support groups can help with this, and the sharing of experiences can be beneficial.
    If the difficulties are significant, medical referral should be considered.

    Dietary factors may also be considered (e.g. gluton free diet), but seek medical advice first.

Where can I find out more?

Allergy Induced Autism (AiA) (11 Larklands, Longthorpe, Peterborough PE3 6LL; tel: 0845 130 0004;
email: aia@autismmedical.com; website: www.autismmedical.com) – a biomedical autism charity.

ASD Training and Asperger Advice Service – email: mail@asperger-advice.co.uk; website: www.asperger-advice.co.uk

Autism Independent UK (email: autism@rmplc.co.uk; website: www.autismuk.com) – a resource centre with reference library, factfiles and training courses.

Autism Research Unit – School of Sciences, University of Sunderland, Sunderland, SR9 7EE; tel: 0191 510 8922; email: aru@sunderland.ac.uk; website: http//osiris.sunderland.ac.uk/autism

The Handbook of Autism: A Guide for Parents and Professionals, by M. Arrons and T. Gittens, T. (1999) (Routledge), contains chapters on history of autism, causes and difficulties relating to diagnosis as well as practical considerations and alternative treatments.

Other useful books include:

Frith, U. (1991) Autism and Asperger Syndrome (Cambridge University Press).
Williams, D. (1994) Somebody Somewhere (Doubleday).

Jessica Kingsley Publishers have an extensive catalogue of books on Autism and Asperger’s Syndrome, including:

Attwood, T. (1998) Asperger’s Syndrome: a guide for parents and professionals.

Jackson, L. (2002) Freaks, Geeks and Asperger Syndrome.

Hesmondhalgh, M. and Breakey, C. (2001) Access and Inclusion for Children with Autistic Spectrum Disorders – Let Me In.

Mont, D. (2001) A Different Kind of Boy: a father’s memoir about raising a gifted child with autism.

Shore, S. (2001) Beyond the Wall: personal experiences with autism and Asperger Syndrome.

Vermeulen, P. (2000) I am Special: Introducing Children and Young People to their Autistic Spectrum Disorder.

Williams, D. (1996) Autism: An inside-out approach.

Wing, L. (1996) The Autistic Spectrum: A guide for parents and professionals.

Dyscovery Centre, 4a Church Road, Whitchurch, Cardiff CF14 2DZ; tel: +44 (0) 29 2062 8222; fax: +44 (0) 29 2062 8333 website: www.dyscovery.co.uk – a multidisciplinary assessment centre for dyslexia, dyspraxia, attention deficit disorder and autistic spectrum disorders.

Fledglings, 6 Southfield, Ickleton, Saffron Waldon, CB10 1BE; tel: 0845 458 1124;
e-mail: enquiries@fledglings.org.uk; website: www.fledglings.org.uk – a free product and service search for families of children with special needs, for educational items and developmental toys.

National Autistic Society (NAS), 393 City Road, London EC 1V 1NE; tel: 0171 833 2299; fax: 0171 833 9666; email: nas@clusl.ulcc.ac.uk; website: www.nas.org.uk – provides information, publications and general advice on children and adults with autism, such as Autism – How to help your young child (1998).

www.strath.ac.uk/autism-ncas – The National Centre for Autism Studies.

Office for Advice, Assistance, Support and Information on Special Needs (OAASIS), Brock House, Grigg Lane, Brockenhurst, Hants SO42 7RE; helpline tel: 09068 633201; website: www.oaasis.co.uk – an advice, training and resource centre for parents and professionals.

Scottish Society for Autism, Hilton House, Alloa Business Park, Whins Road, Alloa, FK10 3SA; tel: 01259 720044; fax: 01259 720051; email: autism@austin-in-scotland.org.uk; website: www.autism-in-scotland.org.uk – provides advice on all aspects of autism and also incorporates CETA (the Centre for Education and Training in Autism) – email: ceta@autism-in-scotland.org.uk

Son-rise programme – a holistic approach to responding to autistic spectrum disorders: see the website www.son-rise.org and the book by B. N. Kaufman (1975) Son Rise (Warner).

www.autismresearchcentre.com – the website of the Autism Research Centre at Cambridge University.

www.futurehorizons-autism.com – an American site listing publications and information.

www.autismconnect.org – a comprehensive site covering a large range of topics.

 

 

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